Initiation then marriage

6 years, 7 months ago by Nick Delffs in Personal Sadhana Reports

Hare Krishna, Guru Maharaj,

PAMHO

AGTSP!!

I just spoke with Anant Rupa Prabhu and he told me about his conversation with you regarding initiation and marriage. 

Wonderful! 

Anadi Radha and I think that it is a perfect arrangement. 

I would be very greatfull to receive initiation from Gopal Krishna Maharaj on your behalf(13th of July). Then marriage on the 25th of August (Lord Balarama’s Appearnce day!!!) in your presents. (presence)

Thank you so much for this correction. 

Can I send you beads through express mail Thursday morning?

ASA - ArD said he will send thus.

I apologize for the lack of communication and transparency on my part. I can’t believe that our planing developed so much without consulting with you. I am still learning about this relationship between the Guru and disciple.

ASA - We also!  Up and down. Left and right.   Transparency was O.K. Consulting was delay. 

I look forward to speaking with you tomorrow morning.

Your aspiring servant,

-Bhakta Nicholas

HpS - ASA --- Yes, we had a nice conversation: You, me, Anadi-radha Devi Dasi, Ananta-rupa Das.  As I understand your aobve letter is 97% correct ... BUT  ....   We are still making this point that after initiation you are not going to be exactly the same person. So, you, anadi et al, have to adjust your local plans, e.g. marriage, in terms of the new situation.  O.K.  Six weeks is a short time to do that, but may be O.K.  Again, read the Marriage of Kardama and Devahuti in the Third Canto together. That is the ISKCON Marriage Manual. See if you agree with all he ideas that Prabhupada includes. E.g. the picture below relates. 

travesuras de Krsna para Yugala

6 years, 7 months ago by YugalaKD in Personal Sadhana Reports

Hk Pamho

Dear Maharaja

This year is one of the most

strangers to me

It's the second time in the year

I feel that my life is in danger

and living that situation filled me with fear,

I think I have already overcome it,

the exam comes and I do not pass it.

In this I have to keep working.

I was doing tests

And a doctor told me

That possibly got confused in the diagnosis.

Maybe I just had pneumonia.

then, some more tests and we will see.

I would have preferred to write to you when you are ready,

but, they could take a lot.

One of two or those doctors were wrong

And they scared me enough

O Naughty Krsna sends me tests.

I could not believe it!

M i l a g r o!

What I am sure of is that

Dead from fear of disease and death

Like, I do not lose my faith

in the protection of Krsna.

Does it seem contradictory?

We now have time to

reassure and thank

Your Gurudeva blessings for

Be a more dedicated servant

And to sing loudly.

His daughter who adores him:

Yugala Kishora Dasi
HpS - ASA ---   Death is great fun. Do not be afraid. Krsna will be with you all the way. All the Gopis and Gopas.  Yes, it is like riding a kayak down a fast river, you can scream, but Krsna and Prabhuapda will be there.  As long as you have breath you can chant:  Ha!!  Rey!   Krsss!  Na!!!    More new of the Adventures of Yugala kishora Dasi

 

Hk Pamho

Querido maharajá

Este año es uno de los más

extraños para mí

Es la segunda vez en el año

que siento que mi vida corre peligro

y vivir esa situación me llenó de temor,

pienso que ya lo he superado,

viene el examen y no lo paso.

En ello tengo que seguir trabajando.

Estuve haciéndome pruebas

Y un médico me dijo

Que posiblemente se confundieron en el diagnóstico.

Tal vez sólo tuve una neumonía.

entonces, algunas pruebas más y veremos.

Hubiera prefería escribirle cuando ya estén listas,

pero, podrían tardar mucho.

Una de dos, o esos médicos se equivocaron

Y me asustaron bastante,

o el travieso Krsna me manda pruebas.

¡No lo podía creer!

¡ M i l a g r o !

De lo que estoy segura es que

muerta de temor a la enfermedad y a la muerte

Igual, no pierdo mi fe

en la protección de Krsna.

¿Parece contradictorio?

Tenemos ahora tiempo para

tranquilizarnos y agradecer

Sus bendiciones Gurudeva para

Ser un sirviente más entregado

Y para cantar fuerte.

Su hija que lo adora:

Yugala Kishora Dasi

 

Rakhe Krishna mare ke,mare Krishna rakhe ke....

All glories to Srila Prabhupada! All glories to Guru Maharaj! Please accept our humble obeisances at Your sweet lotus feet..

Hare Krishna Maharaj,

We had wonderful association with HH Bhakti Ananda Haridas Goswami Maharaj 2 weeks back after returning back from preaching programme from Bali .His Holiness was with us for 3 days....amidst the tears of gratefulness ..we could only glorify Shree Radhakrishnachandra....Nrshimha Bhagawan....Prabhupada ....Sripad...and Guru Maharaj..ever more for saving HH Bhakti Ananda Haridas Maharaj, Sadhubhushan Das Prabhu and 2 other devotees of Bali.

On that fateful day, the devotee who was driving the car, took a wrong turn and the car, sort of fell into a gorge from well above 40ft. Maharaj narrated the spine chilling  incident ....and said Rakhe Krishna mare ke, mare Krishna rakhe ke ....  miracle of miracles...there was no casualty...only Maharaj and Sadhubhushan Prabhu lost consciousness for a brief period of time. Except for some contusion and abrasions everybody was fine. Thank you Maharaj for Your endless mercy.

HpS - ASA --  Wow!  That is a miracle!

Tomorrow we are going to inaugurate the Guest house at Moreh....our senior devotees will leave by 4am from the temple. This project is finally becoming active. Thank You Gurudev once more.

Our temple president HG Radhacharan Das Prabhu has suggested our name as promoter for UBC university profounded by Sripad Maharaj . These are baby steps...but we want to be in Srila Prabhupada's sankirtan party.....no matter where we stand....

Last Sunday we had nagarkirtan at Nambol, about 15kms from our temple. The group is becoming bigger...and we are enjoying so much......we don't have words to thank You enough dear Guru Maharaj.....our vocabulary is poor...we can only say Hare Krishna with all the love we have in our hearts....

Getting geared up for Nirjala ekadashi...and a hosts of festivals coming up towards the end of this month...

We wish you the best of health....we are happy here...

Your ignorant servant,

Sarada Gaurangi DD

HpS - Sorry has taken two weeks to answer this letter. If things are Urgent, please just write that in the Subject Field.     Thank you so much for your news. It enlivens all of us.  You can see we just bought our tickets for South America.  We had to wait until the program dates were fixed here in Tennessee. That happened yesterday.

Now we wait until 18th July for Bog bazaar Gaudiya Matha dates to get fixed, last week in November and then we buy our tickets for India (End of November to Beginning of March). During that time guess we just visit Australia for a few weeks, but then we can plan programs in Manipur et al.

Dear Gurudeva

6 years, 7 months ago by Sananda in Personal Sadhana Reports

DEAR GURUDEVA,

PAMHO, AGTSP

HOW ARE YOU?

HpS - ASA --- This moment. Remembering Krsna because you asked.  Thank you!

PLEASE FORGIVE ME, LAST MONTHS WERE CRAZY AND I WAS NOT ABLE TO WRITTE YOU.

ASA - Hmmmf.<img alt="frown" height="23" src="https://hps.monkeywarrior.com/sites/all/libraries/ckeditor/plugins/smiley/images/confused_smile.png" title="frown" width="23" />

I KNOW YOU ARE COMING TO MADRID IN AUGUST.

BHADRA AND I FINALLY MOVED BACK TO MADRID SO, I WILL MANAGE TO SEE YOU FOR

SURE.

I AM WORKING AT THE AIRPORT, I ACTUALLY REALLY LIKE IT, I HAVE THE CHANCE TO TALK

IN ENGLISH AND IT IS QUITE INTERESTING (I WORK FOR ICTS, I DO THIS KIND OF KIND SECURITY

PROCEDURE TO DETECT DECEPTIVE PASSENGERS, FOR USA AIRLINES, IF YOU TRAVEL WITH DELTA OR

UNITED I MIGHT INTERVIEW YOU! <img alt="smiley" height="23" src="https://hps.monkeywarrior.com/sites/all/libraries/ckeditor/plugins/smiley/images/regular_smile.png" title="smiley" width="23" />). IT IS NICE TO GET TO KNOW SO MANY PEOPLE SUCH STUDENTS,

BUSSINES PEOPLE,TEACHERS, COUPLES, SOME RELIGIOUS PEOPLE...ETC; BHADRA MIGHT WORK WITH ME

SOON; AND I HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH MEAT, FISH, EGGS OR ANY KIND OF DRUG, SO IT´S GOOD, ISN´T IT?

HpS - ASA --- Krsna arranged stuff for us stupid devotees!

WE LIVE IN A SMALL BUT VERY NICE STUDIO IN VALLECAS, VERY CONFORTABLE.

AFTER THE LAST CRAZY MONTHS (OR YEARS?), THINGS ARE GETTING BETTER, SO I AM QUITE HAPPY.

I OFTEN THINK OF YOU AND MISS YOU, I HOPE YOUR BODY IS NOT GIVING YOU TOO MUCH TROUBLE.

YOUR DISCIPLE

SANANDA DD

HPS - We published the Callendar.   See if there is anybody interesting we can meet in Madrid etc. about Art and the Sacred.

Hare Krishna, Maharaj!

6 years, 7 months ago by Bhakta Loren in Personal Sadhana Reports

Please accept my danvadats!

All glories to Srila Prabhupada!

Dear Hanumat Presaka Swami Maharaj,

Please let me know if i can assist you in any way or offer any service when you are in the bay area,  such as transportation or anything else-   Or any service remotely while you are in other places traveling.  Not that i am qualified, but that i wish to make such an opportunity my first priority.    I humbly beg you for your mercy and wish to join Lord Chaitanya’s eternal Sankirtana movement.  Is there a time i could call you by phone and ask a private question?  Im in california so my time zone is PST.  Thank you Maharaj,  for your mercy.  Hare Krishna!

Hopeful to be of service,

Bhakta Loren
 

HpS - ASA --- Thank you. AGTSP.   Jagannatha Swami Das has been recommending you for inititation on Monday evening after Rathayatra.  AGTSP.   We will try to call at 6.51PM/4.51PM.  Jaya Jagannatha!

Urgent

6 years, 7 months ago by Nick Delffs in Personal Sadhana Reports

Hare Krishna Guru Maharaj,

AGTSP! 

PAMHO

Thank you for your response about the marriage. Your words have inspired some deep contemplation. 

This is where I am at:

In some ways I am in the grhastha ashram already because I have Aja. So I am kind of in limbo it seems. I would like to be fully protected in the grhastha ashram. I also have material desires and feel that being a father is a way that I can serve Krishna and his Devotees. 

I see getting married as a way of keeping my life simple. Being a single parent is very complicated. 

Anadi Radha Dasi is a very serious devotee and has been a great benefit to my spiritual life thus far. I would like to keep this association. Because of the small community here and the fact that I can’t really leave Boise because of Aja, I think it would be the best thing for us. May we have your blessings? 

Your aspiring disciple, 

-Nicholas 

HpS - ASA -- Hare Krsna!     AGTSP!    paoho/bw....  Thank you for your thoughtful letter.... First I think, disussing this in this forum is very nice.  This is our village newspaper in some ways.    Srila Prabhupada says that in the Vedic culture the young couple go to the the village Brahmana, astrologer, and ask when is a good time to try to get a child. He tells them and then the Brahmana's wife lets everyone in the village know... !...   It becomes an open secret that on this day at this time Mr. and Mrs. So-and-so are having sexual relations.   Prabhupada say that in this way they are all protected from Maya, not having sex in secret like cats and dogs. Of course, that is more extreme than this discussion. Which is good for a lot of our listeners.

Interesting. We are third world country when it comes to social relations. Trying to apply these powerful advanced techniques is like people from the Amazon try to use cell-phones when they are accustomed to communicating by drum beats.

So, your information is very nice and makes me feel eevn greater respect for you.

We are not just making our comments based upon 70-years of living with marriage and 40-years of ISKCON marriage, but also on the comments of others, Prabhupada, so we hope they have some utility for your benefit, though we don't feel that we are beyond learning a lot of new things.

1. From Parasara Dharma Sastra, as recommended by Srila Prabhupada in SB 1.9: How long has it been since you separated from you esteemed first wife?

2. What if we look at 1st initiation as a   *B I G*   life change, a lot to digest, and then maybe make some vows of intention in terms of marriage at that time to be fulfilled after ...  six months,    one year,     of first initiation?

A lot of people have to digest this First Initiation and then the Second Initiation (marriage) for it to be potent and effective e. g. Aja Ji.   Everyone has to get used to you no longer being Bhakta Nick, now being, Sriman N....... Das.

[What will Bh. Nick answer?    Will he discuss it with his Mother-Father-Brother-Fiancee-Church Deacon-The Milk Man-The Baker-The Candle Stick Maker?

Will he escape the snares of The Evil One?]