Aflicción por suicidio
Hare Krsna! Querido Guru Maharaja
Por favor acepte mis humildes reverencias ¡Jaya Srila Prabhupada!
Orando siempre por su bienestar, me disculpo por importunarle🙏, quisiera consultar sobre un tema que me aflige:
Recientemente una persona que fue cercana a mí, se quitó la vida.
Todo ha sido muy doloroso, pero lo que más me perturba es la forma en la que partió, temo el destino al que se dirige y quisiera preguntarle ¿Además de cantar los santos nombres, de orar por él, hay algo que pueda hacer para ayudarlo?
Guru Maharaja, en esta situación la familia enfrenta gran dolor, confusión, culpa, mucho enojo (incluso contra Dios) y también mucho temor, pues incluso en la tradición católica se dice que debido a que el suicidio es un pecado grave, el suicida irá al infierno... 😞
Muchas veces, el corazón de los dolientes se tranquiliza un poco confiando en que quien parte, llegará a un destino superior. Pero en este caso no se tiene ese consuelo, por lo que la partida es incluso más dolorosa y aterradora.
¿Cómo podría uno encontrar consuelo ante este escenario?
¿Qué puedo decir a los dolientes ante ese temor que incluso yo tengo?
Él era solo un adolescente, no era devoto y, debido a su entorno, tampoco era muy religioso, pero en esencia era noble y bondadoso, nunca imaginamos que tomaría esa decisión... Llegue a pensar que quizá, si él hubiera estado más cerca de Dios, no habría tomado esa decisión. Luego observé que, aunque poco se habla del suicidio en nuestra comunidad, no somos ajenos a esa problemática. Así que me gustaría conocer un poco, para poder ayudar en caso de ser necesario.
Muchas gracias querido Gurudeva, implorando su guía e instrucción, siempre a sus órdenes
Karuna-Sakti Devi Dasi
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Hare Krsna! Dear Guru Maharaja
Please accept my humble obeisances, Jaya Srila Prabhupada!
Always praying for your well-being, I apologize for bothering you🙏, I would like to consult on a subject that afflicts me:
Recently a person who was close to me, took his life.
Everything has been very painful, but what disturbs me the most is the way he left, I fear the destiny to which he is headed and I would like to ask you, besides chanting the holy names, praying for him, is there anything I can do to help him?
HpS//ASA - AgtSP... Paoho... Chanting Holy Names in front of his picture and offering Mahaprasdam is super, super, super, no? Do it your self and with other devotees.
Of course, if he starts appearing in dreams with special needs you can respond to those.
Eg. One 24-year old devotee in Spain committed suicide (mental problems) and left some little children, babies behind. Her friends were all having dreams that she was feeling great guilt about leaving her babies, so they asked for permission to have a seance, and did it. She was present and all the girls together made a promise that they would see that her babies had lots of motherly love.
No, more dreams.
Guru Maharaja, in this situation the family faces great pain, confusion, guilt, a lot of anger (even against God) and also a lot of fear, because even in the Catholic tradition it is said that because suicide is a serious sin, the suicide will go to hell... 😞
Many times, the hearts of the mourners calm down a little by trusting that the one who leaves will reach a higher destiny. But in this case, there is no such consolation, so the departure is even more painful and terrifying.
How could one find consolation in this scenario?
What can I say to the mourners in the face of this fear that even I have?
HpS - Every situation is different. We see Vaisnava acharyas fasting and quiting their bodies to go to follow the Great Dancer, Lord Gauranga. This is suicide, no?
Every situation is different, but in general the Acharya's scriptures tell us it IS NOT A SOLUTION.
Best help is what we said above.
If Catholic there must be rituals. Say a Mass for him!!
He was only a teenager, he was not a devotee and, due to his environment, he was not very religious either, but in essence he was noble and kind, we never imagined that he would make that decision... I came to think that perhaps, if he had been closer to God, he would not have made that decision. Then I observed that, although suicide is rarely discussed in our community, we are not alien to this problem. So I would like to know a little, in order to be able to help if necessary.
Thank you very much dear Gurudeva, imploring your guidance and instruction, always at your service
Karuna-Sakti Devi Dasi
HpS - Tell the family what is our perspective in our religion and look for the same thing in their tradition. Do the work! There is no mistake that you can make that you cannot correct!!!! If you do the work!!!
