Married or Initiated

10 years, 9 months ago by hps in Personal Sadhana Reports, Hot Topics

Letter to the Eiditor

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hare krsna maharaj,
pamho, agtsp,
two days back we went to meetABC Prabhu and his wife DEF

some strange facts ame up for us.
our wife and kid also went, there.

though they are nice couple, but i dont know/think if they can work as Asrama guru.

lots of practicall issues have plagued our life completely..
untimely prasadam,  diety worship standards, incomplete rounds, illicit sex etc.

moreover our own lack of Krsna consciousncess, and ability to connect to Krsna. esp in tough times has create lots of problem.
it seems there is lot of self-pity we have on us.

in todays arugement our wife asked/commented

ISK is creating Brahamans, not house holder vaisnavas. one must know house holder skill himself and not depend on ISK, then he can learn vaisnavism.

majority householders dont/cant teach me.
 

this fact is amplified by seeing lot of remarriages, single ladies and single men in ISK esp..

and we dont have answer where should we goto to learn householder skills. everywhere we have went with our wife we have met failure. 
 
..and esp dovetailing householder asrama.

we are heavily stressed in understanding priorities of houseolder life in general and in emergency.

we think we should not get intiated, we like to take back our formal candidate application.

regards,
XYZ

hope we would have been celibate or would have known basic house holder skills... and would served you.."

HpS - ASA - Bachelor, Married, These are secondary. First thing is Chant Hare Krsna, Holy Names as directed by an Acharya like Lord Caitanya, Christ or Mohammad. The follow the four principles as the suggest. Then you will be happy and otherwise will suffer for every.

Ask your Christian scholar what the Bible says about sex in marriage, all the quotes, not just the ones he wants to give and let us all know.