Marriage (anonymous)

9 years, 3 months ago by candra108_mukhi in Personal Sadhana Reports

Hare Krishna Gurudeva !!! My humble obeisances, all glories to Srila Prabhupada and to you.

The reason for my letter is to inform you that since more than half a year I met a person from Mexico and after all these months He asked me to marry.
He did not know about the devotees but through me and interne He got to know a little about Krsna consciousness, sankirtan movement

It is a humble and religious person, he says he'll eat what I eat and try to learn about the movement, so it is my desire to share my life with him.
I will be Lying if I say that I'm not afraid that he is not a devotee I can only trust that Krsna help me or give appropriate words so that he may understand and get involved day by day.

The idea we have is this summer (maybe a little earlier), move to Mexico because he already has prepared almost everything so I can travel. He is an engineer and have his projects there so that's why we decided it would be better if I move to mexico, due to  I can continue my studies without any problem.

We want to do things right so we will prepare a civil wedding ceremony and later the fire ceremony. (I would like the ceremony coincides with one of your trips to Mexico).

I take this opportunity to tell you that I am fixed on  4 principles  and 16 rounds too, like mangal aratik like 5 times a week and Caitanya caritamrta reading as you recommended me in the mornings.
Gurudeva please I would like to have  your opinion or advice, and humbly ask for your blessing that is most important to me.
thank you very much for your time
And thanks to  mother candra Mukhi for helping me 
Your eternal servant 

xxx

HpS - Esteemed XXX. Thank you for your letter. If you are chanting rounds and following principles and have nice spiritual life in each morning (mangala arati, kirtan, SB...) then it will all be O.K. It may not work out super. He may discover that he cannot move as fast as he thought, but you have to stick to your basic principles or it will all turn into a great hell with very little results at the end of this life. Then another life...  <img alt="sad" height="23" src="http://www.hps.monkeywarrior.com/sites/all/libraries/ckeditor/plugins/smiley/images/sad_smile.png" title="sad" width="23" />

Talk with many others. TALK with his friends and family.