All Glories to Sri Sri Gour Nitay
All Glories to Srila Prabhupada
All Glories to ALL Devotees
All Glories to you!
Dear Maharaj, I'm Rose, Mexican but living in Lima, Peru. 23 Years old.
I hope this take you in a Reeeeaaaally good health!
[Names and place have been changed - Monkey/Piggy]
HpS - AGTSP! Thank you for your letter. This body doesn't have diseases, this body is a disease.
I asked you to write this private message, because I don't really want to write about this in the blog, some people in the past, wasn't "good" with me for things that I said to you in that place...So, maybe I want to protect myself of bad comentaries. But if HH think that this letter can help others by being published in the blog, so, I'm OK with that.
Well. I want to tell you that here in Lima. I met a devotee; Hare Krsna Das, disciple of XYZ Swami.
I travelled a few times in the year, to see the devotees, and him. And we decided to move in togheter ('cause I wanted to move here; Lima, and I couldn't stay in the temple because i'm in a relationship with him, and maybe we saw that move in togheter was the best idea, for me, like trying to take a place in Peru, with a solid path...like a support for me) So... Now we're living in his apartment.
I wanted to tell you about him, because is very important to me, that you can know about my situation.
Here we have a very nice life together, he helps me a lot with my rounds, and also always thinking about Krsna, doing service, etc. I don't know, sincerely, if I'm ready to get married... But I'm taking this seriously, I've realized that I'm a Grihasta, and I want to serve to the SP's mission, in a family. But, you can tell me what is the best for me, I trust in His Holiness.
I want to be sincere, telling you this. is waaaay to important for me. Maybe I shouldn't bother you with letters like this. But I considered important, 'cause now, i'm not with a Boyfriend, i'm like with a "Husband". Some friend devotee of mine, tell me that in the vedic literature, some way of marriage is move in togheter. So, in some kind of way, i'm a married woman, I guess. ¿Is true this? ¿What should I do?
HpS - Ooof! Ideal is to live as Brahmacarini for one year and get initiated. Then one year more and get married. There is no "Vedic literature description" of "move in together". But there is "Gandharva Marriage" where the boy and girl exchange garlands. The basic idea of marriage is that the girl promises to help the boy in serving Krsna and have no other husband relations. He promises to take care of her in KC.
If we do something else, then we have no exact shelter of the Vedas and THE WITCH can catch you easy.
Basic principle is to follow the four principles strictly and chant 16-enthusiastic rounds/day. If you do that then eventually things will all become correct. The more details you can add from Prabhupada's books, the faster it will go.
Here we have a beautiful deities, Gaura Nitay Sundar, do you think that it would be nice and good to take care of them?(Now they're sleeping) Because we're living like in concubinate..ha ha ha !
HpS - Yes, definitely. If you want to go from Concubinacion to Grhastha Ashrama then, sincerely, please Srila Prabhupada, Make him proud of his daughter, then They will help.
Excuse my bad english, and excuse if this letter must be in the blog, and not by this way(private message). Excuse my constant stupidity, I hope some day to be intelligent enough to serve you properly, and to serve SP's mission properly. Thank you for let me send you this mail.
Thank you, thank you, thank you. HH words always are like a relief for my heart.
I hope some day to become your servant, in this life, or in another. Excuse my constant faults...
Please accept my sincere obeisances, Maharaj.
Bhktin. Rose.
HpS - We will post this on the Blog after we change the name. You can do that. You can open another account with a pseudonym. Eg. Rose of the Ganga, Flea of Garuda... Go ahead. Hari Bolo, escape from THE WITCH! Save your "husband" and his Guru.