All Glories to Srila Prabhupada!!!

All Glories to Goura Nitay!!!

P.A.M.H.O.

Gurudeva, 

I'm really happy that you're getting better, and praying for the treatment to work well.

Answering yours questions about my last report, my japa is being enthusiastic and improving a lot.

In the matter of my boyfriend Nitay, He is 22 years old, and I'm 26. He has not been doing any fixed service, since they closed Sao Paulo's Adi Templo, and the other's temples are to faar away, since he works, monday to sunday.But before the temple closed he usualy did regular donations. When he goes to Nova Gokula, he usually helps as assistent pujari, cleaning the kitchen. He goes to the namahatta every week, and have strong association with devotees, also helping BBT buying books from then to donate and for sankirtan.

Thank you very much for your time reading this letter, and for your interest.

Please accept one more time my humble obediences,

Your humble and eternal servent,

Candrarekha devi dasi, Santiago-Chile

             HpS - ASA ---  Ooooooooooooooooooof!        AgtSP...       paoho......   Ooooof!          Prabhupada said that if the wife is older than the husband the relacion will NEVER work.  It will be impossible for her to be submissive to a younger husband.

I have seen that this is a fact again, and again, and again.  I see a relationship between very good devotees and think, "O.K. She is three years older than him and Prabhupada said ..., but they are very good devotees and they will overcome this problem".

They are divorced.     The wife got the house and the dog, the devotee got the car and his career.           I would like to be optimistic, I would like to not be opposed to the flow of things, but this is advice from Prabhupada as I have heard it and as I have seen it again, and again, and again and...                 So, what do    YOU    say???         It doesn't mean that the realation with the devotee is false.  You can very much have respect and affection for each other,  but probably better as Brother and Sister.   Big Sister and then help each other in your respective Grhastha Ashramas.

O.K.    Jaya  Gurudeva...