Dear Guru Maharaj,

Please accept my humble obeisances. All glories to Srila Prabhupada.

Maharaj, I don't know who to ask for help.

ASA - Your dearmost Friend, Krsna. Srila Prabhupada is his Secretary!

One of my best frineds finds herself in a struggle with her relationship to her soon-to-be husband. I feel bad asking you because you are not in the grihastha ashrama

ASA - Yeah, so we will give stupid but long perspective advice.  ha!   Ha!   HA!  (Ray)!

but I don't know too many people that I can trust to tell this to. Or maybe I'm too proud to ask for help beccause I think we can just solve it ourselves. Whichever the reson I am genuinely asking for some help or guidance. I don't know if it is required for me to discuss the details; however, I can't keep it inside. 

Your aspiring servant,

S-N DD

ASA - Well, maybe it's not her Husband-to-be but the Relationship-to-be. There are no good husbands, there are no good wives, there are no good Temple Presidents, there are no-good Sannyasis iin Kali-yuga. But, if we base the jobs on Hari Nama then they can be very useful practical, Even fun, by the mercy of the Hari nama.  The husband and wife that get up early and get their Japa done together stay toegether (to the end (Goloka)))!!!

Send the news here with an alias eg. Princess Sunshine of the North, and we can give more stewpid advice.