Maharaj,
PAMHO AGTSP,
I’m writing to you regarding my varnashrama situation. Is it advisable for my father to resign and live with me to give me emotional protection.
YAS,
Yajnaseni DD
HpS - Hare Krsna. AgtSP! Paoho. Wish we could answer letters more quickly. Even now it is a little extra strain on our eyes.
Saw your letter and tried to select which ones to answer each day with intelligent priority.
Our answer is basically the same as we have given to so many similar questions for many years:
Our friends cannot give detailed answers without detailed knowledge of the situation, but in general what comes to mind in the situation of Asti and Prapti.
https://vedabase.io/en/library/kb/50/
As a general principle it is very simple. Girls need boys to help them, boys need girls to help them. Girls have daddys, husbands, bothers, sons.
This is like washing our clothes, or hair.
It is natural.
As much as it is related to our service to Krsna, like Draupadi taking care of her husbands, then it is not a part of the material world. It is intimate service to Krsna. As intimate as Goloka.
The details of which school, what profession, Mathura, Detroit, Chennai??
We don't know.
We all need to pray to Krsna to be part of a village, physical or virtual.
Maybe all that has happened to you is so that Krsna can drive you crazy, us crazy. Only when we become madmen like Lord Caitanya can we understand SB.
Some help?
Please understand us and use as a tool in your dancing for Krsna.