Marriage Adjustments

2 years, 11 months ago by hps in Personal Sadhana Reports

Sriman XYZ from Whatsapp writes:

"Dear Maharaj, please accept my respectful obeisances.

Things are again going back to being extremely bad. She's started hitting herself due to being unhappy in the marriage.

I'm begging you again, to please allow her to get separated, she's been forced to be in situations against her wishes for past 10-yrs, please don't prolong it further.

As I said, I'm happy to take on all sinful reaction of separating in the marriage.

Neither she is happy in the marriage, nor am I. The longer we wait, the worse it gets.

Your servant"


HpS - Wow! What news. AgtSP. Paoho. Why on earth are you writing to me about this? Did I force you to get married? Have I forced you to remain married?


All I did was take HOURS of effort to communicate what I understand is reality. The Blog posts are there.


There is no divorce in Vedic culture, reality.


You can stick beans up your nose and pretend you are having lunch but it does not work.


Marry a girl and you are married.


Get her pregnant and you have a baby.


You can't change this.


Live separate and exchange nice letters. Modi does that.


If you want to get married again, then do it. Take care of your first wife properly. Don't do sinful things in terms of that duty or you will get sinful reactions. You will become a ??? Donkey, cat, son of Kuvera????


If she wants to get remarried, then she can wait the proper time and do it.

It is third class but in Kali yuga it is progressive.


However this has to be adjusted in terms of local laws with divorce settlements etc. Do it with clear representation that you are following the Vedic standard.


Hare Krsna!!

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If you chant Hare Krsna this will all become clear and you can stop abusing yourself!

Jaya!

HpS - ASA.

Thank you! All respects to you and all the families.