hare krsna maharaj, AGTSP,PAMHO, we are happy that you are engaged 24 in service of Srila Prabhupada mission.its gives us lot of guilt that we ask occupational duty related question to the spiritual master. but we dont know any one esle to implement NOI verse 4. please forgive us. continuing  

http://hps-d6.monkeywarrior.com/node/893. and your instruction that we have to keep lakshman the spiritual environment.  we wanted to know how much is contribution of mother required in the same. if the mother just focuses on bodily needs of the child. and refuses to contribute any thing moral or spiritual. and prefers to just pass days.

in such circumstances what does duty of the soul entangels in male (husband body) how can he hope to make his home any better place. what should be his attitude. where should he invest his energy. try to serve his family and in hope that family members would improve.

would not  child be disturbed if father and mother have different ideologies.

i am asking these questions, as 80% of our mental thoughts revolve towards this  matter. we have to work hard to maintain family  for what purpose we are not understanding. may be we are too impatient.

 HpS - ASA -  Jaya!    AGTSP   Welcome to the Kali-yuga.   kalau doser...  it is an ocean of faults!   Karma yoga, varna ashrama dharam, doesn't work well.   O.K.  Vibhisana was a devotee in Lanka.  Prahlada was a devotee in Hiranyakasipu's kingdom.    First you have to be the best example you can.   Second you have to realize, bhoktarama yajna tapasyam..    you aren't the best friend of Laksmana. Krsna is. He will deal with your good wife and Laksmana's mother as He decides.  he can arrange.       ANYTHING.      Think first thing is to show good example.  Second thing work on understaning your role and Krsna's role.   Third be enthusiastic, but patient.    What about reading KRSNA book to Laksmana every day?   Does Mataji like to also sit and listen to you read stories to her baby??