Hare Krsna Gurudeva I am really worried about one mataji who is pujari she is young she is 17 years old she became devotee by the age of 14 she is really nice she used to do sankirtan deity worship almost all the week, and she has her bhakti sastri degree she was my student but her family problems her father is an alcoholic.. she lives alone because her father is not helpful...due to she was young many devotees become interested in her and well she had some misunderstanding and the matajis started to gossip about her well she was not completely innocent but all the things were in the subtle plane .
well now she has a boyfriend he is not devotee.. he respects his believes but all the devotees do not talk to her they looked at her like she was degradated..that she is like a monster... she does not want to continue doing her service because people look bad at her... she used to wake up for mangal arti....nice rounds... nice sankirtan and now she finds support in her boyfriend because he is the only one who takes care of her I tried to call her, animate her but it is just me she does not feel so good and the devotee critized her ohh that makes me so mad because they just forget all the things that she did they just see the bad things and I do not know what to do I told her please do not leave at least one day attend the deity other wise we are going to loose U for ever U are not matture enough U need to have some relationship with the temple.....
she says that she feels kanishta adhikari because she just has a relationship with the deity I recommended her for second initiaton when JPS was here in peru but all the devotees started to talked bad about her and I guess that if she had took second initation she may feel now with more commitment she is very responsible well gurudeva please tell me what to say to her maybe some message from your very good self would help her
thanks in advance
thanks for your inspiration
your eternal servant
Candramukhi dd
HpS - Just chant Hare Krsna and Krsna will tell you how to help her!